For those ready to expand from the one man, one woman union principle, the versatility of swinging is endless as long as you both understand what you are doing and why. Rules are false protection that make you feel safe. In this particular place there was one that was partially lit and one that was fully lit with a sex swing. In regards to the current aids epidemic, married women are among those with highest risk of contrasting hiv-aids. This can make it hard for a new couple to find other people. Make sure you talk about all these things up front.
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Couples guide to swinging. Lots of swinging couples use fake names as an identity, and it is perfectly acceptable in the swinging world. We had been dating a few years and lived pretty far apart. While married i sex with about 4 women over 45 years. I knew if i told him i didn’t want to be there, that he’d leave. There are some of us (perhaps just a few) who don’t feel the need to cheat emotionally or physically and don’t need a variety of partners to keep things spicy. I also know the feeling of constriction, when something is tightly bound, when i am unable to move, the almost panic that can ensue from this constriction.
To them it is just that, a casual encounter. He kept saying, “do you want to go to a swingers club?” i said, “what are you talking about? i don’t even know what that is! i’m a corn-fed midwestern girl.